No one wants to ever think for a second that she might be the side chick but then it can happen to even the best of us. The signs may be obvious (or other times, he may be a very smooth criminal) yet many of us delude ourselves into thinking we are the only mosquitoes in his net thus watch out for these signs:
1.He spends more money on you than time
Players understand the principle of keeping you distracted. It is unfortunate that too many times, ladies equate his feelings with how much money is spent on them. However, he may be spending so much on you so you don’t realize that he is not spending as much time with you.
2.He shares little with you
This is a major red flag. If he does not like to tell you personal things then be warned. You are a side-chick when you don’t know details about him, his family, finances or have met only a few of his friends. Men in love are open books.
3.He is more about sex
Don’t be deceived. Sex may be a way of expressing deep feelings but it is also a plaything for the average player. If a guy keeps troubling you for sex, then he doesn’t have your best interests at heart.
4.His friends make snide comments
You would have to be very attentive to take note of this but usually, some of his friends may know of your side chick status and they may make fun of you or let something slip.
5.He is effusive in professing emotions/ not expressive enough
When a guy is either of the two extremes then be careful. He may not say it cos he doesn’t mean it or he may say it so much cos he believes it is what you want to hear.
