The way I define ‘seduction’ is simple. It is the art of knowing what your man wants, how he wants it and being able to give it to him. If you see it that way, would you really still sit there and call it ‘sinful’?
True enough, marriage is a holy institution. It should not be handled carelessly or corrupted in any way but that does not mean act you should pack up every feminal tool you have in your arsenal and say to yourself, “after all, I am married now and I should not act like a whore.” Excuse you! You are married. If you don’t show your husband your sexual ferocity then who do you want to bottle it up for?
Being sexually alive and going out of your way to call your man out on those terms does not make you dirty. If anything, it shows you are human. You have blood pumping in your veins and you should not act like sex is meant for the man to enjoy alone.
Tease him sexually. Lure him into your bed. That’s right. I meant what I said. Don’t be boring or make it seem like marriage robs all the fun out of sex. Make it something you two can actually look forward to. You should be able to seduce your husband, not have him refuse you. This involves knowing what he prefers in the bedroom and exquisitely serving it to him every time as long as it is not fetish like some Christian Gray freak show.
When you make sex more than just some form of basic requirement of marriage, you two will pleasure each other more and have a healthier marriage.
